OOTD: Da Goth Unchained β›“οΈπŸ”—

You know when people feed you clichΓ© lines such as “be the change you want to see in the world” and you sardonically smile and are like “yeah,yeah whatever Gandhi“? (apparently it wasn’t him who said that- who would have thought the internet would lie?).

Well, I used to be like that until I broke free of the social conditioning which made me hide my real thoughts and opinions for fear of social backlash. To be precise though, I never really hid my brain farts, but rather censored them. So artificially flowery scented brain farts when in reality they are potently organic. Yes, you may grab your mask – at least it will be useful for once?

Well, some of the thoughts I hold would probably trigger a lot of the faux woke brigade. *cue evil oppressor laugh*.

Amongst others, I firmly believe that onlyfans is trash, sex work is not real work, and spreading your bootyhole for the price of a happy meal on the internet is not feminism or empowering at all.

Class and elegance should not be foreign concepts just because we are in 2021, however I can see that many of what used to be my peers in the alternative world are now confusing “alternative” with “flash your tattooed tits and hashtag it #bossbabe“.

I wholeheartedly disagree with this lazy bullshit – you can be alternative and keep your clothes on (case in point).

You can be a #bossbabe and keep your clothes on.

Fun fact: I used to be an IT contractor and would charge Β£500 a day for the hiring of my brain and experience. I don’t have an IT degree and my very first job was in a call center when I could hardly speak English. I failed my first law degree because of anorexia and depression, and I’m here chunky but funky!

Now, don’t get me wrong – as much as I hate the system we are thrown in from birth, I found a way to make it work in a way that upholds my integrity and self respect; something this generation of onlyfans girls don’t seem to care for. I empowered myself through learning and getting better at what I do – whilst keeping my big girl panties on.

Yes, I’m tooting my own horn, but it’s my blog and I don’t care. If anything, I’d hope that it helps any fellow nerdy alt girl who may stumble on this post, to keep up.

You got this!

Dress: Primark Β£13, Harness : Poizen industries : Β£12 on eBay

With Love & Sassy Brain Cells,